To "abuse" this lifestyle in the best way possible, you have to be unapologetic about your standards. It means saying no to "filler" activities.

Your environment dictates your energy. Adopting a "Mayli" mindset means choosing pieces for your home that serve both a functional and an emotional purpose. Minimalist but warm, high-tech but hidden.

Instead of attending five mediocre events, save your energy for one world-class gala or a private tasting.